Simple Penny Motivation

November 4, 2011 in Simple Home School by Lorilee Lippincott

I wanted to share with you something we have been doing this school year that balances motivation and discipline and ideally hits both in a positive way.


Even my 4 year old is excited by money… must be in his genes :)  Before I tell you what we do I wanted to let you know what we believe about kids and money.

  1. Kids need to have money so they can learn to use it as young as possible (when they can count and not choke on it)
  2. It is important for them to learn how to spend as well as how to donate and save
  3. Kids need to have a way to earn their money (Dave Ramsey idea) and not learn that money is just handed out.  Think job, not welfare.
  4. They need to have money to buy the things they want and not walk through the store asking for things.  Now it isn’t up to me if they get something – if they have the money, they can decide to spend or not.

(here is a picture of our money jar.  We use dimes and pennies mostly)

Based on those ideas we have decided to tie money/allowance into their school work and life at home.  … I understand that school doesn’t pay, but it as close as I can come to figure out how to tie their daily activities into income just like a job.

Here is what we do:

  • Every school day they get 20 cents at the beginning of the day
  • If they do an extra assignment they get paid an additional 10-20 cents
  • If I have to ask them to do something twice (like stop yelling, talking during rest/reading time, jumping on the bed, running through the house naked…. ) they lose a penny.
  • At the end of the week they can count their money and take out full dollars.  (extra money is left in the cup for next week).  Of the full dollars 20 cents is donated or ‘given to Jesus’ in a way that they choose and 20 cents is put in savings.

This has worked really great so far.  Both my kids will jump into additional assignments easier (not frequently, but easier).  My daughter has hit chapters in math that have been easy for her and done 5 or 6 assignments in an afternoon to rake in some big bucks.  My son has really jumped on the ‘not loosing’ pennies.  He runs around saying things like “I lost no pennies today mommy”, or “Guess what daddy, ONLY lost 1 penny today”.

I was reading earlier this summer about how our human nature and motivation works better with the fear of loosing than the reward of getting.  For example, weight loss pools where everyone puts in money and the winner walks away from all of it, are more successful because people are working to ‘not loose’ the money they have put up.  It is a silly bit of being people I guess.

At first, I was afraid it would be a bit like negative reinforcement by taking money away when they weren’t obeying.  The problem is that as parents we are much quicker to notice and correct the negative behavior than we are to notice the good.  Sad but true, I do praise my kids for doing a good job, but it is harder for me to remember.  This system seems to work well rewarding them with their money every day in an expectation of great things for the day.

Another option I have read about that is similar is paying kids a specific amount and then letting them ‘spend’ their money on TV or computer time.

Do you have other ways of motivating or ‘creative correction’?  This is a HUGE parenting struggle and key to healthy kids and healthy relationships.  It has the added problem of every kid being different :)

Come back next Friday for a photo essay of our FFFT (Final Fall Field Trip)!

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